do you know what my mom said earlier at the dining table?
she told us how little aunt has already decided on her own that her future in laws will only get to have 50 invitations for the up and coming wedding, while little aunt side will have 150 (my aunt is the groom side)
the future in laws requested to have 100 instead. so little aunt said it's fine, but then the venue needed to be changed since it wont be able to accommodate more than 200 invitations (about 400 pax)
'it is ridiculous of her to restrict it that way without talking to them. well, this is a lesson for us' she said
i thought, what? finally you got the idea. to learn from other people stories, seeing from both side point of view. to be nicer to other people.
'so we know what to do next time for your wedding' she points at me.
?!!?!?!?!?!??!?!!
i snapped, 'what? why dont you say- so you would know it's not nice to decide on your own, that you would gracefully offer bro's future wife's a choice of number- unlike your little sister'
DIDN'T SHE JUST SAID IT'S A LESSON FOR US????? if she applied that to my future wedding, how does that helps? does that means if my future in laws did the exact thing as little aunt do- do not marry him at all cost??
dont you have a son too mom? why dont you take this and reflect it yourself and remind yourself to be nice to your future daughter in law INSTEAD OF DEMANDING my future in laws to be NICE TO HER?!
?!? seriously. and now she is mad at me saying im rude and i shouldn't always disagree her words. i should talk sweet words and agreeing her. this is exactly why i dont have a boyfriend and nobody wants and nobody would want me if i dont change.
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