Tuesday, September 28, 2010

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as usual, im really grateful that universe let me take my life step by step. once at a time.

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being born as a human in a decent living condition enable me to learn how to read and write, thank you universe.

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since i back hometown, i had chance to come across more reading about Taoism and now Buddhism. (the school library have some books on it!)

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Buddha said, it all started in the mind. we are what we thought of, and we will be what we are thinking today. something like that. so He stressed about learning how to control the mind and tame our senses.

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thank you universe for letting me to have chance to come out with the decision to stop complaining about the cold. as Buddha said, not to let emotions running over every wild direction, but to learn to take things as what it is. so i stop painting 'cold' with 'miserable' and now im LOT more happier. it's cold (and everybody tell me it will only get colder) but im taking it as what it is now.

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thank you universe for my housemate, although we hardly see each other, but we chatted nicely whenever we met, and im more convinced that to smile is spreading good karma.

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but currently my mood swing follows the weather forecast. whenever it is sunny, im happy and when it is cloudy im miserable. no good no good. i must learn to detach from this. the sun is rising later and later and disappearing earlier and earlier. and it is forecast to be cloudy this few days.

i just dont know....even if the temperature is the same, but with sun around, i feel much more...safe. a big security sense.

no good.

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today still cried, because i woke up and feel the sensation on my left leg back again. because of sleeping on soft bed for past 2 weeks. and the uncomfy chair. im really afraid my back bone got problem again. haiz. but universe offer me a quick solution...i went to the empty room, and luckily the bed is much firmer. phew.

tonight will have a good rest.

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tomorrow will be my very 1st class, hope everything will be good! amen!

Sunday, September 26, 2010

birmingham 14th day, 25th sept

sunny saturday! the internet weather forecast is good!
thanks xydra for intro me her friend, who turns out to be my neighbour! she invited me to join her to visit sealife centre. and so i met many many new friends!

the housing by the river bank is so so so pretty! and the blue sky with the sunny sun complement the colors! lovely!

aal fresco dining~ pretty!

aat the end of the canal walk, we arrived at sealife centre! with the coupon on catalogue taken from train station, we got 2 for 1 price. so for one person it is 8.75

the fan coral, omg this is the 1st time i see this~ almost looking fake and flat, a little bit reminds me of biscuits =D

all-malaysian-new-friends~
jon-jenny-izzah-me-celine-susana-syn yee~

hmp~ the sealife centre...nothing special about it except the fan coral heheheh...oh! and i learned that sea horse is a fish, which the male has pocket like kangaroo to take care of the eggs. and dragon horse is seahorse's cousin!

and there's a some type of fishes that change gender after their king/queen die! so when a queen die, the big bunch of followers male change to female in order to gain place to mate and to conquer! *but i forgot the name!

but considering quality and species collection, it is pathetic compare to KLCC aquaria. this kind of place is good to bring your little kids to spend the weekend.

but again i totally hate this kind of place. aquaria, or zoo.

we take fun at the expanse of other living creatures. being captured and breed in captive, without freedom, and being seen for the amusement of us human.

i just dont enjoy this kind of so called attraction.

no matter how pretty singapore zoo said by friends, when i enter there, i couldn't enjoy. all i think of was 'how pity their life is' and even worst at night zoo 'they still haven't go to sleep because of us!' =.=

brindley place~ totally reminds me of raffles place at singapore!


for dinner, we walk back to the river bank, and stop by at this pretty restaurant looking at the '15% discount for student' and the awards given for good resto and good deal =)


the resto we had our dinner at, the burger is not that overly huge~ i tried lamb mint, normal size, and wasn't really juicy, dry. celine tried kids size, it was the same burger size! just a thinner burger, but half price! maybe next time i should try the kids size =)


and so we walk towards the new street station and back to home =)

thank you universe for letting me met new friends who stayed at the same street! now there's friends to walk together back home! thank you universe!!!!!!

Friday, September 24, 2010

western civilization: opening bank account

civilization.

as day goes by, im growing more and more amused. what a image the bule had imposed on us asian. as the residue of colonisation, we grow up looking up to the west, admiring the west, and feeling bad about what we have at the east.

today is my 11th day at birmingham.

my current conclusion is, the subconscious cultural statement above cant be any further from the truth.

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have i mentioned that Birmingham is the second largest city at UK?

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today Hui Shien, Tiffany and i went to the city centre to open bank account at Llyods bank. there was only 2 ladies at the reception which also handles the bank opening account. the one that handled us was a senior between the two, and she was extremely multi tasking, being able to following with the both right and left side juniors of hers.

first of all, i realized that she was heaving a rather heavy accent, so when she talks with me she kinda repeating her words, but i take no offence, since i know she was totally busy with such a looooooonggggg queue and looks like she keep sayin 'i will do that' - 'ok, i will handle that' to her junior -and a trainee (who kept telling ppl 'please bear with me')

Universe, thank you that i wasn't handled by the junior. the pretty lady has a stern face (suppose if you work in that environment with people keep flowing in and asking lots of things) but she was rather rude to the customer by the way she calls them 'excuse me, come over here' with her hand moving in a rather not polite way and in a bossy tone.

phew.

the lady didn't work in a very fast way. i stand for 20mins plus. and it was basic -classic account. and this new term started, im sure there's LOTS of new comers came to open this account.

phew.

and then she asked me to go downstairs to cash in the cash i carry. so again there's a long queue (.....) and then it was my turn.

the guy at the counter looks cute and really young.

so i passed to him my folded money. a stack of 50 notes, and 20 notes which i separate every 5 pieces, (so 4 pcs and 1 pcs folded)

the guy took it half heartedly, and try to straighten the 50 notes, then look at a stack of 20 and told me rather in a -sorry-looking-face-

'please dont fold the notes next time'

and looking so troubled to count the money. he kept slipping and count the stack wrongly, and painstakingly called for his colleague to come to rescue. the lady took a part of my money and walk here and there counting it. not to mention looking distastefully at me.

i really really really cant understand where do they put their money counting machine?????????

is this young guy totally newbie???????????????never count so many cash ar????

does english people really dont carry cash around????????????

i had been to china hk malaysia singapore and indonesia, there's nowhere weird or uncalled for folding your notes into two and separating the every 5 pcs of 20. (im watching TVB now and i saw they too fold their notes that way! tsk!)

tsk! bule bego bule bego. blon lagi kerjanya leleeeeettt abes!

phew, and he finished counting it and the amount match. then he look at me and ask, 'anything else i can do for you?'

WHERE THE HELL IS MY RECEIPT?!

*retarded*seriously*

'can i have my receipt please?'

'oh, ya sure, let me just, put away this money' then he slowly open his drawer and put away my cash.

and to my utter surprise, he take out a piece of paper, wrote down my account number and wrote the amount i bank in, and put down a stamp on it.

EVEN MY TINY LITTLE HOMETOWN PETROL STATION GIVES OUT ELECTRONIC PRINTED OUT RECEIPT OKAY?!

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and the debit cashcard (aka. atm) will only be out after 7 working days, and i have to come and collect it at the branch. i seriously miss the time at singapore, both DBS and UOB gave me my card immediately. on the spot. and opening bank account was served like a royalty. with small discussion table and comfy chair to sit. and nothing more than 20mins all done up and properly explained about the account.

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and it is great that i came with another 2 friends. tiffany told me the 1st thing she did was checking her name. because to westerner who is unfamiliar to chinese name they always made mistake.

wah. they really spell my name wrongly.

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luckily we had not leave the bank! thanks tiff!

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when she apologize, i say, it's okay, then she showed me on her screen it had changed properly, and i say 'otherwise i would be in trouble when my parents bank in the money' then she said, 'no, it wont affect'. how could it not? dont you need account name too beside the account number?

tsk-!

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if you asked me, what i had learned so far from this land, i would say i learned to appreciate more of my identity as an asian =)

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but universe had arranged my day. apparently during the 2 hours we stuck at the bank, it rained. and now that we out, it had stopped and the black clouds slowly fading away! afterwards we went to wet market and i bought eggs fruits and vegie. then we visited the chinese supermarket and bought soy sauce and oyster sauce.

the afternoon was a super blue sky with pretty clouds. extremely beautiful scenery, to pair with serene looking trees.

thank you universe for taking good care of me. i feel loved.





Thursday, September 23, 2010

happy mooncake festival!

i almost wet my whole table and laptop while seeing this post

hope next year i get to eat those, fresh!

birmingham 8th day, 19th sept

3 types of 1 pound design~ phew~ so many design?

into the city centre shopping area~ i love the traditional feel building!


the flower seller, i wonder how's his business is!

the famous bullring -the high end shopping centre

on this warm and cloudy sunday, we went to chinese malaysia restaurant to celebrate tiffany bday. my cha kwe tiau is quite nice!

tiff's kung pao chicken is nice too~ except that it wasn't spicy


i loveeeeee the plants and the pretty flower decorating the facade

we walked and walked and found a park

which actually is a graveyard...but it was full with youngster playing skate board

exiting to the other end

love the big green lust trees

the exit is into a very quite area

which we realizes is office area, no wonder it is so quite on sunday


loveeeee the flower outside the window!


their centre library. wow. so small...cant compare with HK or singapore's size!




the unique ornamented doors


love the blue and wood color matching!

one of the office building along the way~ nice~

Hui Shien, Tiffany - the bday girl

hui shien's handmade oreo cheesecake! geng!