human: the creature of habit

i am suppose to be working on my project, but.. want to take this opportunity *everybody went out* to write something for my dear friend.

it is taken from the self motivation book that -ehem- took me half a year to finish -ehem-shame on me-

to summarize the issue, my dear friend is a person who thinks, 'i know i wont like it so i am not going to try it.' i disagree about it, but couldn't find a better words to explain why it's not a good idea.

taken from 'Secrets of the Millionaire Mind' by T. Harv Eker, wealth file # 16 is:

'Rich people act in spite of fear. Poor people let fear STOP them'

why is 'Action' is crucial? because it's the BRIDGE that connects the 'inner world' and 'the outer world'. so to say, to make your dreams come true, put in some action.



' Rich and successful ppl have fear, rich and successful ppl have doubts, rich and successful ppl have worries. they just dont let these feelings stop them.' it is not necessary to try to get rid of fear in order to success.


then, T. Harv emphasize on this:

'the only time you are actually growing is when you are uncomfortable'

meaning that...we have to get out from our comfort zone, and get comfortable with 'uncomfortable zone' until it become part of our 'comfortable zone'

expand - stretch - enlarge - your comfort zone, that's what he mean with 'growing'

'nobody ever die of discomfort, yet living in comfort zone has killed many ideas, more opportunities, more actions, more growth than anything else combined!'

so he said, since we are creature of habit, we need to practice this 'growing action'. the next time you feel uncomfortable, uncertain, or afraid, instead of shrinking and retreat, PRESS FOWARD.


and by doing so, the fear will subdied, and we will discover new things. and ultimately, we will become UNSTOPPABLE!

well.... worth a try, dont you think so?