shops are putting up spring collections.

has the winter left?

without a words, just like that?

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this realization has brought a huge regret on my heart.

and today did things that i regretted. how could i be so forgetful?

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regrets, will you remind me tomorrow to live my life better?

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i had idea of writing letters to my future husband hahahhahhaha

hopefully will remember to pass him what i had written so far.

wherever you are, hope you are doing well.

autumn tale

remember this drama? among the first that creates the k-drama hits ^________^ so nostalgic! i actually watched it again last week, won bin is as charming as ever =)

and guess what?

a guy was playing this on guitar today as i walked down the road to grab some groceries!

in a faster pace, the song filled the whole road

how nice!

i wonder if he could play winter sonata too :p

the road less travelled 1.2

1.2 delaying gratification

"it is a process of scheduling the pain and pleasure of life in such a way as to enhance the pleasure by meeting and experiencing the pain first and getting it over with. it is the only decent way to live."

"while many have a well-developed capacity to delay gratification, some 15-16 years olds seems to have hardly develop this capacity at all; indeed, some seem even to lack the capacity entirely. -they are impulsive, and their impulsiveness spills over into their social life as well."

"why is this? the answer is not absolutely, but most of the signs rather clearly point to the quality of parenting as the determinant."

PECK, M Scott, 1990. The Road Less Travelled. p 17-19

the road less travelled 1.1

one greedy fella

want to read book(s), want to learn how to knit a red scarf, want to research bout trip, want to learn korean, want to learn italian, want to eat fruit and somehow really want to watch drama.

i want them all now.

ah, and still contemplating if i should confront my 3 gentlemen housemates about taking turn in throwing rubbish.

one part of me is saying, 'this is no big deal, just some rubbish. i can handle it'

the other part of me is saying, 'you are spoiling them. they must learn their responsibility too'

then the other part says, 'perhaps it is you that are being challenged. you must learn how to confront others as part of your growing-up-scheme'

running away is always the easiest choice.

time to list down and play the priority game.

and thanks God for today, one fine day.

i joined a holy communion at st. martin's church this morning at 9.30

the roads were dead quite, so so so empty. fine cloudy morning.

and i was surprise to see there's only about 15 ppl attending the service

and all are elders ^___^

who said british ppl are grumpy? well, to be fair you can find grumpy old man in any skin color.

the old ladies are definitely very warm and friendly.

one fine day =)

next time i will go to the 11 o'clock instead ^^" they told me it's a bigger and livelier one

to my proof readers, thank you all for the enlightment!

it feels downright embarrassing to realize the huge huge huge proportion that will need to be corrected.

frustrated too on another part, but very thankful for the rest of it.

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the presentation is on next tue, gonna needs to put extra time to check on the grammar too =( i hope i will be able to present it well to 30++ people.

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loveliest purchase i got during the sale season. got it after further reduction hehehee~

*edited: hahaha jo! will those two pics answer your question? hahahha XD